Anonymous asked: You said 'more importantly I enjoy it', do you value your sexual enjoyment over Snow's?
A fairly fundamental paradox of dom/sub relationships is that to maximize her pleasure, I have to focus on my own. One of the more ubiquitous traits of people with submissive personalities is that they can derive extreme pleasures out of service, and being used for someone else’s pleasure. Often, being forced to do something difficult/unpleasant/humiliating actually heightens the overall pleasure. I know it sounds weird, but there it is.
So in the larger sense, I want her to have a wonderful experience - but in the more immediate sense I use her how I see fit (while keeping a careful eye on her emotional state).
Also I was being a bit cocky - what can I say, I was in a good mood.
Truth. I will always get more pleasure out of knowing Daddy is pleased than I would being ‘pleased,’ myself.